Meetup.com is a site to plan monthly meetings of people in your community interested in a certain topic. A while back, I suggested a game development meeting to them, and they've put it up on their site. Of course, they messed it up and call it "video game development," but I'm piggybacking on it and using it for community game designer meetings of all types.
You can find the site at http://gamedev.meetup.com.
Huh.
You are completely effed, of course. Pen & Paper RPG developers are looked upon with...derision would be a good word. Expect coders and artists to join up...it looks glum for RPG design stuff.
Gloom and doom aside, I'll add myself and see what happens.
Edit: Oh, damN! You ARE a coder...hehehe...bastard.