So, the reason my d&d group fell apart was a Minotaur Barbarian with Cleave and Power Attack, and a gigantic axe. Or, rather, the player behind said minotaur barbarian. Worst roleplayer ever, as stated by a friend. He killed people at random, in city streets, then got pissed off when the guards came. That sort of kid.

And now that same player has resurfaced, "excited" and "pumped up" about playing Point of Collapse, my play-by-post baby I've been working on. (www.fluffydevil.com/pointofcollapse/forum)

His first words to me after he found my game were "So, about your little game dealy - I'm going to play a pit fighter.")

Now, I was trying to make a game about internal struggle and searching for purpose, a game which was strongly narrativist, and a little sim at the same time. And I wish he weren't a close personal friend, because I didn't have the ability to just deny him access.

Anyways, what I decided to do was try and "mold" his direction a little bit (i didn't want to railroad him, but I really didn't want a game of smashing skulls to earn gold coins. With a modern barbarian.)

So, here's what I found worked really well in this case: For other players that I've helped develop characters for, I suggested possible background and story angle tweaks - to get them thinking about how to integrate themselves into the game world.

For the powergamer, story means very little most of the time. So I took a different tact - logistics. "Pit fighting is a dangerous world, which likely means there are a lot of bigger fish out there. You would likely be a bottom feeder."
"Oh, well I thought that part up already - I'm one of the retired supersoldiers you outlined in the book."
(Curse myself for making that information public.)
"Okay, but there is no steady 'pit fighting' or underground fighting rings."
"Well, I wander from town to town." (So, we've got him out of the pit now. mostly.)
"And FutureCorp soldiers were given a large severence check. Why do you need to fight?"
"Well, I have nothing better to do. he's a bruiser."

(At first, this statement appalled me. Then I saw a possibilty in it.)

"So, you feel like you have no higher destiny or purpose; is that what I hear?"
"Yeah."
"Okay, so really you aren't so much a pit fighter, but someone who is searching for a place, and who gets sucked into violence because that's all he's good at?"
"Yeah, that's it."

And, I think we both kinda came a little closer to like terms. He gets his pit fighter, I get my story. haha.

Anyways, when I really thought about it, I realized this: He's a god damn supersoldier, with cybernetic gauntlets. I can just let him automatically win every fight - downplay that aspect.

As soon as supersoldier rolls to punch, I can narrate his enemy dying then and there if I want.

And then, the game isn't about combat anymore. Even if that's where the game takes place.

So, a question: Is this fair practice as a GM? Am I helping create a commonality, or am I railroading?

Hi Joepub - whats your real name by the way?

I have a few questions for you;

Can you give us a little background on what you have read here at the Forge?

I take it you have read the 'Narratavism: Story Now' article?

Other than D&D, what other RPG's have you played?

Regards
Rob

Hello,

I don't think your final questions need to be discussed. I think you need to back up to a more important underlying issue, which you expressed earlier in your post as follows:

I wish he weren't a close personal friend, because I didn't have the ability to just deny him access.

Hi Joepub - whats your real name by the way?

I have a few questions for you;

Can you give us a little background on what you have read here at the Forge?

I take it you have read the 'Narratavism: Story Now' article?

Other than D&D, what other RPG's have you played?

Since when is "friendship" also blackmail?

1. Talk to him.
2. Talk to him.
3. Talk to him.

Tell him that the game isn't about hack-n-slash, it isn't about winning, and that his player will handily strike down just about everybody who comes at him, to the point where dice won't even be rolled.  Follow up with "and no, there will not be a boss at the end of the trail of broken mook bodies."  Tell him that there will be no joy to be had in dominating combat, because the game isn't about combat.  It would be like playing Monopoly for the adrenaline rush of completing a pass and scoring a touchdown.

That said, he may be perfectly fine playing the badass who's looking for a purpose in life.  Inhabiting the badass character may be a prerequisite for him playing in much the same way that some folks must play only male or female characters, or who must play characters whose parents are conveniently out of the picture.  If he's fine going somewhere else in the same car, then you'll be all good.

4. Talk to him.

Okay, I'll try to talk to him about it - It's tricky because last time I brought it up, he talked to me like I was an idiot. "I *was* telling a story. Y'idiot."

But I think yuo guys definately provided me with some angles/guidelines on how to approach dude, and future like-minded dudes.

Thanks.

I think creative focuses (in games or anywhere) requires someone to say no. This guy isn't ready to hear no (he's automatically assumed he's invited to play, for a start).

If he doesn't have the capacity (from the outset) to understand that he might hear a no, then that same issue will drive right into the heart of the game. There's no 'guiding' someone who isn't prepared to accept 'no'. Come to think of it, he'll be guiding you (you can already see it with the 'I'm invited' assumption)!

Along with the suggestion of talking, I think it would clarify many issues if you asked "What would you say if someone said no to you about something?" (using the word 'someone' so as to avoid making it seem a 'who's the alpha here?' question). Don't give any context, because it can be turned into grounds for an arguement. Just ask it straight, to see what he's straight up responce is. If he gives some reasonable responce, then tie that into the social contract with "Okay, so you'd do that. What would happen in game if, in the heat of the moment, you didn't? What should the rest of us do?"

Sounds like this kid has an agenda, one that's contrary to yours. And he probably gets mad at you, as the GM, for not recognizing that he's playing out his agenda to his extreme enjoyment.

Ask him what he wants from the game. What he hopes for.

Because that "you punch him and he dies" trick is going to work once. The second time he's going to get very mad. Because he told you at the outset of the game what he wanted -- fighting -- and you're fucking with him. It's an excellent passive-aggressive way to drive him from your game, if that's your goal. But it certainly isn't going to "trick" him into your idea of story oriented play.

2¢
-Luke

Hi

I think that it might work, despite what the other posters have said. The GNS articles point out that Gamist players have less of a problem with addressing premise. So go with it a see what happens. Have you got this guy to write a kicker? I wouldn't let him off the hook - insist that he creates a few relationships that matter to his character.

Any disruptive behaviour, then big boot!

Regards
Rob

A lot has been said here that I agree with--I *do* understand that this is a tough situation. The issue is that there's a paradox:

1. You have a game that's *about* something (your ideas).
2. You will accept any *character*.

Leaving the issues of the *player* aside (and they are, as Ron points out, the key ones) this is a self-contradiction. That's where my suggestion lies. You will eventually need to resolve this with the Player--there's probably no way around that (and I don't think the auto-kill thing, as Luke says, will work very long).

However, stating clearly up front what kinds of characters the game is for--and what kind of play--may be a good moderately neutral way of setting expectations.

For example: "This game is about people searching for their place or destiny. How does that conflict show itself in your character?"

If the answer is "I fight!" then you need to work out with him why that doesn't work for you--or why you need more help with that ("I don't see that--help me understand how that gets him closer? Where's the conflict? Does he not like fighting but does it because it's all he's good at? What'd he rather be doing?")

This will not solve the problem. However--by being *very* explicit about what you are looking for it can help remove the subteranian level of power struggle.

Good luck,
-Marco

2. You will accept any *character*.

In Fight Club, when the protagonist is fighting Angel Face - The blonde guy who's a part of Project Mayhem.

He beats the crap out of Angel Face. But the fight isn't the focus - the actual fight takes about 6 seconds in that scene. What takes the time is the beating, the aggression, the venom, and the guilt.

The scene isn't about fighting - it is about "Jack" feeling exclusion, lack of control, and an inability to express his emotions in any way but aggression now.