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Topic: [D&D] Who's boss?
Started by: Jasper Flick
Started on: 1/21/2007
Board: Actual Play


On 1/21/2007 at 9:13pm, Jasper Flick wrote:
[D&D] Who's boss?

Hi all, this is my first Forge post and it's about the first (actually, a pre-play) session of our new RPG initiative. The big themes, if there is any, would probably be player empowerment and maximize Fun. But the first issue I start of with lies at the social level, it's about (assumed) authority. But first some background.

Where I come from

In short, I've been exposed to D&D in college about two years ago. I've played some since that time, got familiar with D&D, got and appetite for the rules. I checked out the Wizard of the Coast boards but found the intellectual experience appalling. Found out about Monte Cook's site and discovered a more open-minded approach to D&D. Spent a while on his boards until I lost interest in the minutia of mechanics and started to focus on the social context of role-playing. I began to regard the play experience higher than the realism and consistency of the rules and gradually found myself alone in this on the boards but supported by this at the gaming table. Then, as so many before me, I discovered the Forge. Spent some time absorbing theory, forgot about it, came back to absorb actual plays, left again. And now it's time to post. Hi!

The people

We are roughly a group of 20-something year old male Dutch (ex) college students (computer science or AI). We all know each other from a social context in which nerdy games, D&D, Shadowrun, a multitude of computer games, and World of Warcraft are very dominant. All are nice guys as far as I'm concerned.

First there's me, Jasper, oldest (27) and graduated a bit over a year ago, with a full-time job. I really don't want to waste my time on Not Fun.
My previous role-playing experiences and other potential Actual-Plays are thus:
1) I've been a player in three D&D "campaigns", of which the last two were very short-lived and Not Fun.
2) I'm currently playing in a freshly-started Shadowrun 4 campaign with a session about once a month, which I hope turns out fun but I'm not convinced. There have also been a few one-session things.
3) I've been the DM/GM/whatever of a pre-written D&D campaign, "Return to the temple of Elemental Evil", RttToEE for short. The players were seeking a DM, they asked me, and I said "sure". It lasted maybe ten sessions before we abandoned it. We had Fun, but not enough. It taught me that this wasn't the way I wanted to DM.
4) I've run a couple of loose free-for-all D&D "survive THIS with your munched PCs" sessions. It was basically a non-stop tactical combat with a veneer of story and limited illusory freedom. Best sessions I've had so far, precisely because of their limited scope and duration and no-nonsense approach.

Next, there's Johan, almost graduated (AI). Recently he has played lots of D&D, often with the same group and almost always with the same DM as far as I can tell, and some Shadowrun. He has played Mage: the Ascension in the past. He was one of the players in the RttToEE campaign.

Up next is Tom, still in college. Besides role-playing we have a shared interest in anime and manga and console games. He has played quite a bit of D&D and a bit of Shadowrun 3 with a small group of people over the past few years, and nothing else as far as I know. He's playing in another weekly D&D campaign as well. Also was one of the RttToEE players, has played in two of the survival sessions, and he has been in two of the D&D campaigns I played in as well.

Then we have Ivan, someone I basically know through Tom. He's been my DM for a smoldering train wreck of a campaign and my fellow player in another smoldering train wreck of a campaign. We both just want to have fun. He and Tom have played D&D together a couple of times. Don't know much more.

Last is Marcel, youngest of the bunch. I've known him as a fellow student but not much past that. He has played a bit of D&D and Shadowrun, perhaps one (partial) campaign each.

The setup

At some point not long ago we figured out the four of us (excluding Ivan) wanted to role-play. About a week ago I took the initiative and emailed the group about it. I presented a list of questions, seven in all, to deal with practical matters such as where and when to play, if we wanted more people, how open-minded people were about RPG systems, and such. We decided to ask Ivan, included him in the discussion and he joined. We got together last Saturday to brainstorm about what we actually wanted from role-playing.

My position in all this is important: I was the one to take initiative. I created the questions and provided the first set of answers with them. I bluntly made the decisions based on everyone's feedback, with the explicit opportunity for vetos, to keeps things rolling. I was basically the de-facto DM. My house was basically the de-facto location, with Johan's place as alternative (we both own a condo; the others don't have a good place to role-play). I believed myself to be most schooled in role-playing theory, for what it's worth.

I considered myself in the centre of it all thus far, but I desperately didn't want to be the unconditionally followed "boss". What I wanted was for us to be equals. So I proposed Johan's place being our first meeting place, as he mentioned it was available that day. I did this because I feared that being the host of the physical location as well would put me in a position of total dominance.

Is my decision weird? Do you recognize it? Does it make sense? Do you need more info? I have no degree in psychology or whatever, but that was my train of thought and I considered it very important at the time (and writing it down made me realize this even more). Is there a topic about exactly this subject that I missed?

That's it for now. I'd like to focus on this perceived issue of social authority a bit before carrying on with what actually happened that day.

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On 1/21/2007 at 9:52pm, James_Nostack wrote:
Re: [D&D] Who's boss?

Makes sense to me.  If it's weird, it's only because most people aren't so sensitive to interpersonal dynamics. 

Some of the best posts on the Forge, over the last 3-4 months, have focused on the fact that the rules-moderator, the guy who plays the bad guys, the host, the "creative director," and the guy who simply organizes the game and coordinates everything, are entirely distinct functions.  It sounds like you recognized this on your own, and are making sure to get buy-in from other people before any system dumps more authority on you (or someone else).

I'm curious about what was Not Fun for you, but that's probably not directly relevant to this issue of leadership. 

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On 1/21/2007 at 10:10pm, r_donato wrote:
RE: Re: [D&D] Who's boss?

Hi, Jasper, let me begin by welcoming you to the Forge!


My position in all this is important: I was the one to take initiative. I created the questions and provided the first set of answers with them. I bluntly made the decisions based on everyone's feedback, with the explicit opportunity for vetos, to keeps things rolling. I was basically the de-facto DM. My house was basically the de-facto location, with Johan's place as alternative (we both own a condo; the others don't have a good place to role-play). I believed myself to be most schooled in role-playing theory, for what it's worth.

I considered myself in the centre of it all thus far, but I desperately didn't want to be the unconditionally followed "boss". What I wanted was for us to be equals. So I proposed Johan's place being our first meeting place, as he mentioned it was available that day. I did this because I feared that being the host of the physical location as well would put me in a position of total dominance.

Is my decision weird? Do you recognize it? Does it make sense? Do you need more info? I have no degree in psychology or whatever, but that was my train of thought and I considered it very important at the time (and writing it down made me realize this even more). Is there a topic about exactly this subject that I missed?


I completely recognize your concerns about being the boss. Actually, this was discussed on an earlier thread, You've Landed on Gaming Group "Park Place", Pay $15 Rent.

However, I would like to ask a related question. You've made it clear what worries you: namely, being perceived as the "boss". What isn't clear to me is why this worries you. What are you afraid will happen if you are seen as the boss?

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On 1/22/2007 at 6:28pm, Jasper Flick wrote:
RE: Re: [D&D] Who's boss?

James, yes I'm quite sensitive to that stuff. If I were a fictional character I would probably be an empath. The "monolithic GM" carries an immense burden and I'm happy that more people recognize it is not the only way to go.
I'll talk about the (Not) Fun stuff later.

Your thread reference is golden, Ricky! Personally, I was afraid that people would come to our first gathering in passive follow-the-leader mode and that snapping them out of that would be hard. I believed that not playing the host would make me less intimidating, so enticing proactive behavior would be easier. I think it did help, but I can never be sure how much.

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On 1/23/2007 at 8:25pm, Jasper Flick wrote:
RE: Re: [D&D] Who's boss?

So last Saturday we got together at Johan's place. I was the first to arrive and we were complete in about half an hour. We chatted a bit about role-playing in general but I held off the serious discussion until Tom, the last one missing, arrived. We all brought some snacks or drinks (we emailed what we would bring ahead of time or what was at the house).

D&D it is

Tom started with asking whether he could assume we would be playing D&D (v3.5) because we all knew that system and not much else. As no one had any objections we limited our scope to D&D there and then.
I think the most important reason was distaste for learning a new system. Not really surprising if all you know is D&D and Shadowrun, more or less similar systems which take quite a while to learn and reward having a strong grasp of the rules. Why learn a new system when you expect the play experience is going to be the same except you'll be less effective? (In our little RPG climate the most significant arguments used to promote D&D or Shadowrun are limited to setting and "realism".)

I did throw in a teaser, by the way. I put the first page (two sides) of Capes Lite on the table before things really started, talked a bit about it with people individually and said that in case we had lots of time left we could give it a try. People were intrigued but not really interested at that moment. In the end we didn't have any time left. I'll just keep Capes Lite with me in case there's a lost hour somewhere and someone asks "what shall we do?" Capes Lite seems perfect for that.

Agendas, Fun, and Not Fun

Next up was the discussion about play style, Fun and the Not Fun. Basically, the questions that I repeatedly asked were "What do you like?" "What don't you like?" "What do you mean by that?" "Can you give an example?" "Anyone recognize this?" Despite lots of laughs and a few sidetracks discussion was quite focused and intense. I won't try to reproduce the conversations but will instead highlight each person's point of view as far as I was able to determine. Some people added more to the discussion than others, as you will see below.

Johan

Johan identified two distinct objectives that he enjoyed: playing an interesting character and playing what he called a munchkin character. He believed you can combine both objectives but he wanted to know which had priority. He basically wanted to hear "this game is about combat" or "this game is about playing a character". Regardless, he would still make his character as effective as possible in what it would do.
An example of an interesting character was one with an unusual and thematically colorful background, highly integrated in the setting. The key aspects I identified were being unique, keeping it a secret from the other players, and role-playing a specific kind of behavior. As he's currently playing the character (in a GURPS game it turned out) I'll keep out the actual details.
An example of a munchkin character was a half-orc barbarian he played in the RttToEE campaign I was the GM of. D&D is about combat and the PC was a kick-ass combatant and not much more. The interesting thing about this barbarian was that Johan tactically minimized his intelligence and charisma scores but also portrayed him accordingly, or even more extreme than required. He enjoyed playing a dumb and socially inept powerhouse, but had the system not required him to penalize his character so I'm not sure he would have played that way.

Another thing he showed interest in was playing the funny type, though he didn't list it as one of his preferences. It's the half-orc bard or elf barbarian in D&D or the intelligent and refined savage; the anti-stereotypes. I've seen more people have fun talking about playing such characters, but I have never met one who actually did. I wonder whether such characters would hold up in actual play.

Johan defined one of the most Fun he had was when he accidentally killed someone his party wanted to keep alive by rolling a critical hit. After cleaving the NPC in half he smiled sheepishly and said "sorry" to his furious teammates. All players had Fun that moment.
He also described as Fun but not as a specific moment, having the feeling that he could go anywhere, that he could roam without a neon sign saying "Go HERE next!" He also liked the real possibility of death in combat (which became clear after one fatality). All examples are from the RttToEE campaign, by the way.

What he considered Not Fun was being kept alive by the GM and PCs being made into fools by the same GM, like accidentally setting a bookcase on fire because you're standing next to it with a torch.

Tom

Tom focuses on the "story" as he calls it. As far as I can tell that means two things to him: being his character and watching the story of the GM play out. On multiple occasions in the past he had told me he was willing to give up control of his character if it benefited the progression of the GM's story. (I made the GM explicit here, he didn't.)
An interesting conflict Tom seems to have with himself is that he creates PCs with story and background in mind, basically disregarding combat effectiveness, but then becomes unhappy because his PCs often suck in combat. I know multiple occasions where I've pointed out his PC configuration was suboptimal but he kept it because it apparently fit his character concept better. I think he's stuck playing the wrong system.

Tom likes to be in character and talk in character. He's happy to spend half an hour buying a sword. I didn't get an explicit Fun moment from him though. He also didn't provide a strong Not Fun moment of his own.

Ivan

Ivan's agenda, as far as I can tell thus far, is basically to be along for the ride. That is, he wants to role-play and will go ahead with any focus the group decides. His most distinctive feature so far is that he likes to play exotic creatures or half-beasts but he doesn't limit himself to it.

He cited pulling a daredevil move as an example of Fun. He was playing a gnoll (hyena-man) and jumped from a balcony on top of a flying creature, trying to grapple it. He got in a hit but failed the maneuver, falling to the ground. I believe the most significant part was that he was allowed to perform this not-by-the-book action.
He explicitly considers having no freedom and being of no significance Not Fun. His example was the train-wreck we were both in, where he felt like he could do nothing to influence the story.

Marcel

Marcel was like Ivan, pretty much neutral. If anything, he was like "let's role-play and I want to help making it great".

He had a pretty strong Not Fun moment, once I pulled it out of him. He had a Shadowrun PC who suddenly had a bomb put in his head. It turned out ok, but the big Not Fun was that he felt like he lost the ownership of his PC. He had no say in the matter, I believe both in getting the bomb in there and in getting it out. Turned out Ivan was his Shadowrun GM, and he didn't know Marcel felt that way about it! That was a nice moment.

I should now include myself in the summary and then move on to the next part, but I'm at the end of my day and I fear I'll rush things, if I haven't already. So that'll have to wait.

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On 1/23/2007 at 9:40pm, James_Nostack wrote:
RE: Re: [D&D] Who's boss?

Wow, those are some astute observations. 

D&D It Is . . . I did throw in a teaser, by the way.


I get the impression that you feel the group's decision to stick with D&D wasn't entirely to your taste, and you feel that the logic behind that decision, while understandable, was flawed.  If that's correct, did you say anything (politely) along those lines? 

The reason I'm saying this is because I have this funny picture in my mind!  Tossing a copy of Capes on the table and saying, "You know, we could play this, maybe, if you want to... I'm not pushing it (please please please pick it, oh you didn't pick it, DAMN) well maybe some other day" doesn't seem entirely straightforward.  It's just a picture in my head, not saying that's how you really felt.  But I've done that.

An example of an interesting character was one with an unusual and thematically colorful background, highly integrated in the setting. The key aspects I identified were being unique, keeping it a secret from the other players, and role-playing a specific kind of behavior.


Whoa, I played with that exact same guy once.  When you say "unique," do you mean mechanically unique (in D&D terms, maybe a species never seen before, or a class he made up himself)?  When you say "keeping it a secret from the other players," what's an example?  Why's he feel that way?  Would it matter if the character's unique-ness was known to his fellow players but still secret from their characters?  (I'm asking questions because based on my personal experience, those traits bring up bad memories.)

It sounds like Johan likes a game where there's real risk, and the GM doesn't try to push him around.  (He might be a good fit for Capes--good instincts, Jasper!)

Tom focuses on the "story" as he calls it. As far as I can tell that means two things to him: being his character and watching the story of the GM play out.


To me, this sounds a lot like "Participation-ism," which is basically when the GM has a story to tell, and the players roll some dice, realizing that, at the end of the day, they're here to facilitate the GM's story.  How does Tom feel about risk?  Like, what if the players make some "mistakes" and de-rail the story, what should happen then? 

Honestly, it seems like it would be hard to make Tom and Johan equally happy in D&D.  It sounds like Ivan and Johan could play together quite easily though.

Anyway, I'm looking forward to hearing about what you like, and examples!

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On 1/23/2007 at 10:35pm, Eero Tuovinen wrote:
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I'll support James's observation: the guy who wants to play an unique character, but keep it hidden from the other players, what's up with that? I mean, it's apparently an archetypal way of playing, as I've encountered it myself several times. If anybody has a good theory for what brings up this behaviour, I'll be interested in hearing it. I have no idea myself, so I'm curious.

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On 1/23/2007 at 10:59pm, James_Nostack wrote:
RE: Re: [D&D] Who's boss?

Eero, I have a theory for the guy I knew, but it's not very complimentary, and hopefully has nothing to do with Johan.  I played with RZ for six months through Internet chat, and concluded he was a whiny prima donna who wanted everyone to acknowledge how powerful, important, and mysterious his character was. 

Of course, this character had a species he created himself, a class he created himself, skills he created himself, and magical powers he created himself.  Oh, and weapons and armor he created himself.  This was fair because the GM permitted it--if anything, it was unfair to him because "the GM said no to most of what I wanted.

Clearly it was RZ's way of waving his imaginary dick around.  Naturally his character was "emotionally inhuman" and didn't care whether any of the rest of the party got killed due to his "imperative needs."  My character had various leadership skills to foster team synergy--and of course, his character's (made up) race would never respect mine, etc.  All of this, of course, justified by 'My Guy Syndrome'.  I never knew his real name, and he disliked breaking character. 

It was total bullshit; some of us called him on it; the GM refused to take sides; we walked.  Our places were filled by other people almost as bad.  Last I heard, the game had been going on for four years.

This was first gaming experience in over ten years.  It blew.  But whatever doesn't kill you...

--Anyway, this presumably has nothing to do with Johan, about whom we know very little at this point.

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On 1/24/2007 at 12:08pm, Jasper Flick wrote:
RE: Re: [D&D] Who's boss?

You bring up an interesting point, James. The decision was predictable. The scenario I has in mind was that I would make a case that there were other games, wildly different games, designed to cater to specific kinds of play, but that we would stick to D&D because it is inside the comfort zone and anything unknown is out. I wouldn't really call that flawed logic but it sure is self-limiting. I pointed that out and that was as far as I was willing to go. I used Capes like you use bait to attract fish to a spot where you would later like to catch fish. It was Something Shiny.

Johan's character is unique in the sense that it's a very rare existing part of the setting (and supported by the rules as far as I can tell). It's unique flavorwise because of its inhuman nature, which allows for nonstandard behavior. It is important to point out that he isn't playing a superior character but something like Rain Man; an authistic specialist.

Indeed, Eero, what's up with the secrecy? The most obvious part of it is that it stays out of play; it doesn't become explicit. The key issue seemed to be that it was basically limited to the player's head, manifesting in play mostly as a bit of color. It was perfectly save. The other players couldn't touch it, but also couldn't appreciate it as much because they didn't know about it in the first place. I called Johan on that and he agreed. So what could we have here?
- Johan has private fun because of his character's secret.
- The GM is happy because Johan will always have his private stuff to be happy about even if actual play sucks.
- Because Johan is engaged in play other players will be happier as well.
- The GM can savely ignore Johan's added content and storyline until he decides to use it in his own story somewhere in the distant future, which might very well never happen.
- If everything else fails, Johan's big reveal could be used to spice things up temporarily.
- Johan will have fun memories about the campaign, mostly consisting of things about his character, which mostly never actually happened in play.
It's a friggin' insurance against a boring game!

By the way, one of his fellow players did figure out what he was, but that player doesn't let his PC act on that knowledge and won't spoil the secret to the others. I think that's the thrill part Johan likes as well: "Can my fellow players discover my secret?" It's a silent challenge that stands regardless of actual play.

James I think you're spot-on correct about Tom.
Players derailing the story is terribly vague, it needs examples. The players fail to spot the clue. The players accidentally destroy the clue. The players fail a roll that should not have been failed. Am I on the money? I think that all those examples are to be resolved in the same way, if you ask Tom: basically that the players wander around aimlessly until the GM provides a clue to get them back on track. In case you mean something extreme like killing the princess they were supposed to rescue, I don't think that ever happened to Tom, both as player or as GM.
Funny thing is, there's not really much in-game risk involved here as far as I can tell. The real risk I see here is Not Fun. As that lies outside of the in-game events, it's simply not considered. An in-game risk I can think of is character death. I think in Tom's case this means two things:
- having to break the story to go somewhere to get the dead character resurrected
- having to break the story to artificially introduce a new character that has to replace the dead character's role in the party
So Tom doesn't like the risk of character death... but he is fine with character death if it is good for the story!

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On 1/24/2007 at 6:31pm, cydmab wrote:
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Jasper wrote: - Johan has private fun because of his character's secret.
- The GM is happy because Johan will always have his private stuff to be happy about even if actual play sucks.
- Because Johan is engaged in play other players will be happier as well.
- The GM can savely ignore Johan's added content and storyline until he decides to use it in his own story somewhere in the distant future, which might very well never happen.
- If everything else fails, Johan's big reveal could be used to spice things up temporarily.
- Johan will have fun memories about the campaign, mostly consisting of things about his character, which mostly never actually happened in play.
It's a friggin' insurance against a boring game!


This more or less describes my experience in the current quasi-DnD game I'm in. (BTW a large part of the reason we are, nominally, doing DnD is also that's what people are used to)

After the last few sessions I realized that we got _completely_ railroaded by the GM; we were having zero meaningful impact on the events of the game, and our characters were not the heroes/main characters/protagonists of the global story.

However, I also realized I didn't really care, especially in play. I was so focused on my character and her development and reaction to events around her that I just firewalled off the fact that she was a helpless supporting character in the GM's story. The story that mattered to me was HER story, and most of that happened inside my head. What was important was how she felt and the choices she made, not whether those choices had any impact.

Now, the reason I don't try to communicate her story to the other people at the table isn't really just to keep it secret, but:

1. Take up way too much screen time if done in game, and I'm already the most screen-time grabbing player (other than the GM)
2. Also, if done in game I'd have to keep breaking character to give monologues or force myself to overact or rewrite what she says to shed more light on her thoughts. Doing this would also bring me up to the metagame level, where I'd be more cognizant of the GM's railroading
3. I could write it up between sessions, (and I did experiment with doing this early one) but noone would read it.
4. I could have radically simplified the character to make her easier to describe, but this would defeat the whole purpose.
5. Other players would only get a shadow and a hint of what was going on inside my head anyway, because there are limits to my expressive abilities
6. And finally, they DO get glimpses of what's going on with her story, since they DO impact the choices she makes, things she says, and the emotions she displays. I'm still contributing to the general shared imaginary space by focusing my energy on my character, just not so much directly.

-William

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On 1/26/2007 at 12:11pm, Jasper Flick wrote:
RE: Re: [D&D] Who's boss?

William, why do you actually play? I think what you wrote down is basically why you don't quit yet. It makes me sad. It would be cool if you made that into an Actual Play for yourself.

I'll continue my AP with a new post in a few hours.

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On 1/26/2007 at 1:49pm, James_Nostack wrote:
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Jasper wrote:
It was perfectly save. The other players couldn't touch it, but also couldn't appreciate it as much because they didn't know about it in the first place. I called Johan on that and he agreed. So what could we have here?
- Johan has private fun because of his character's secret.
- The GM is happy because Johan will always have his private stuff to be happy about even if actual play sucks.
- Because Johan is engaged in play other players will be happier as well.
- The GM can savely ignore Johan's added content and storyline until he decides to use it in his own story somewhere in the distant future, which might very well never happen.
- If everything else fails, Johan's big reveal could be used to spice things up temporarily.
- Johan will have fun memories about the campaign, mostly consisting of things about his character, which mostly never actually happened in play.
It's a friggin' insurance against a boring game!


That seems odd to me.  I think you could get most of that by letting the players know, and simply have the characters remain in the dark--and then the thrill is something that everyone can share: "When do we decide that Character X discovers Johan's character's secret?"  Role-playing requires strong creative collaboration, and it seems funny to say, "The thing that excites me most about the game, I'll keep to myself."

Here's another example from personal experience:

I ran a "traditional" game for three years.  The four players created character histories in isolation (which is what usually happens, isn't it?).  As the GM, I decided to invent a connection between the characters involving an alien artifact--Character 1 rescued it from his village as Character 2 tried to destroy the village to acquire it; Character 3 eventually bought it, indirectly, from Character 1; Character 4 was investigating Character 3 for smuggling alien contraband.

But!  All of these tensions and potential conflicts stayed secret, almost for three years!  For one thing, I didn't share it with the players--only revealing tiny pieces of it, gradually.  But also--and just as importantly--each player kept his character's story secret from the other players.  Simply due to instinct and habit, no one volunteered any info about backstories.  I didn't mind if the players "figured it out early," but I figured if they wanted to keep this stuff secret from each other, that was their business.

What a mistake!  Looking back on it, it would have been far more interesting and enjoyable for all of us, if we understood these connections from the start.  We could have had some serious blood opera going for three solid years, with tension and escalation, betrayals and escapes, if only we had enough common sense to tell other people what made us the most excited about something we devoted three years of our lives to.

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On 1/28/2007 at 4:50pm, Jasper Flick wrote:
RE: Re: [D&D] Who's boss?

Role-playing requires strong creative collaboration, and it seems funny to say, "The thing that excites me most about the game, I'll keep to myself."


But when there's actually no collaboration going on it doesn't seem that strange, does it? In fact, isn't that exactly what a lot of GMs do? I didn't say it's a good thing, but something that could be spawned by a less enjoyable play experience.

Back to my own AP...

Jasper

I'll start with things that I don't like.
I think what gets me most is being promised A, but getting B.
Example: we were going to play in a magical metropolis and we were going to participate in some kind of prestigious tournament. Cool. But the tournament got wrecked and we ended up going on a cross-continent chase after an impossible enemy. So here I was with my social city-based show-off character that even bought a house in that cool metropolis. The whole concept simply went down the drain. I should've flatly refused the quest, but I accepted for the sake of the GM. If the GM would've simply said he we were going to have a travel-across-the-continent adventure it would've been a whole different story.
Another example: I created a barbarian character who actually wanted to be a cleric. I made that very clear. I asked whether I could pursue that. Yes I could. You were free to do whatever you liked. Cool. Except in reality I couldn't. We couldn't leave the GM's train and it wasn't heading anywhere near my character's theme.

Something else I dislike is getting information I really don't know what to do with, which to me seems utterly pointless and a waste of time. At worst it's a pointless red herring from an evil GM. Example: we were approaching a settlement and the GM asked for spot checks. Only my character succeeded. So the GM takes me aside, all secret-y, and describes a bird flying away from the settlement. That's it. In the current context of play it was totally significant and meaningless. Was it foreshadowing for something we never actually got to see? If that was the case he should've just told us all. It appeared that he was more likely trying to get me all tangled up about what it could be. It annoyed me, so I discarded the information. Hypothetically, it's like the GM describing one thing in a room in great detail. It acts like a magnet for attention. Of course the players are going to check it out. I think this is just fine when the attention is warranted, but if it is actually something unimportant I see nothing but a lot of wasted time, frustrated players and perhaps a gloating GM.

A variant of the previous point is the GM describing EVERYTHING in great detail. First it takes an awful lot of time, second it is utterly boring to listen to, and third it makes it impossible to figure out what's actually important. I had a GM who was obviously quite proud of the world he thought up, a 'world-builder' as I call them. At one point we entered a room, talked to a person for a minute, and left again. Except that we also got to know everything there was to know about that room as well, being utterly pointless, costing about 20 minutes of play time.

More boring stuff I don't like is being forced to sleep through a long player-GM dialogue that's totally irrelevant for me. For example when the rogues goes on a solo sneak mission, or when someone decides to act out buying groceries for 30 minutes.

Of course you can also provide too little information. If I have no point of reference, no way to judge the difficulty of something, I cannot make a reasonable judgment and I will have no fun. My first D&D combat ever was an encounter against a group of undead and we had to run. Only we didn't realize how horribly we were out of our league until it was almost too late. How was I supposed to know? Didn't we were excellent fighters? Didn't the GM provide challenges we could face? Apparently not, but no one told me beforehand. The worst part of it is the GM being smug about it. Why didn't you run? Because I couldn't know how bad it would be beforehand and because when I did I had to rescue my paralyzed teammates, thank you very much.

Something Not Fun of another kind is statistical impossibility. The example is me trying to sneak through a house, being required to roll both a hide and a move silently check at least once per room I entered. It was a big house; I needed to pass through something like ten rooms. Of course I failed a roll somewhere. It's the same issue as the fighter-types getting more attacks than the other characters, so they roll a 1 more often. Terrible if a GM loves critical misses.

Another one is simply being denied something by the GM, even if the rules would allow for a chance. An example is me being hidden on a ship that had been captured by pirates. At some point I start to sneak around. I know an allied NPC is also on the ship, but I can't find her. I specifically look at one suspicious place, but no there really is nothing, no roll required. Later I spot some pirates checking out the same place. Turns out later that it was indeed her hiding place, but she was simply impossible to find. I really felt dumb and cheated for not spotting her back then.
So my character is sneaking around the ship but gets spotted. I try to hide again but fail. Ok, so it's going to be combat. I roll low on initiative, the pirates walk up to me, throw a net over me and take me away. Wait a minute? no attack rolls, no defense, no whatever? Nope, I simply get captured and locked up with the others. The allied NPC is the only one who remained free. If I was destined to be captured anyway, why did the GM allow me to hide when the ship got captured? I would have preferred it if he had just said "and you all get captured" instead of setting me up for a string of predicted failures.

For me Fun is making a difference, making meaningful choices, cutting to the chase, being able to lose myself in the action, pushing boundaries. The best example for me is acting on-stage. Part pre-written, part improvise, go! Engage the audience and have a great time doing so. I think at least part of that can be found in role-playing games as well, but as a player I haven't experienced much of it yet.

The last time I played I had a half-orc barbarian D&D character (the one who wanted to become a cleric). The most fun moment with that guy was in the first combat. I won initiative and instantly knocked the NPC tough guy out of the fight. There was another bad guy, who I killed in the second round with such overkill that I yelled "I decapitate him!" and the flabbergasted GM stuttered "o... ok". That was satisfying because thus far I had been totally insignificant, but at that single moment I totally walked over the GM's plans and he couldn't stop me. I single-handedly beat his encounter. (By the way, my character wasn't over-the-top, I just rolled really well.)

Another fun moment was also a kind-of retaliation. Another player in our group was basically an ass. Didn't want to learn the rules, bitched about realism (he knew real sword fighting), was not part of our own social group. At one point we were hiding in a secret tunnel with NPCs looking for us. We were having a silent little fit until he tried to punch my character. I responded by making lots of noise, so the NPCs detected us and we had to come out of the tunnel. Except I didn't, I simply stayed inside while the others surrendered. I felt a little bad about it, but also smug because I got away with it.

One of the most Fun things of being a GM was getting the players to really hate an NPC bad guy. How they didn't like his personality. How they were furious at his betrayal. How they howled as he escaped. How they triumphed as he lay dead at their feet. The example was an NPC from the RttToEE campaign. It was a rather insignificant NPC with the instructions "try to point PCs in wrong direction, if fails try to infiltrate group and betray them." So that's what I did. He really was the big bad guy of that campaign, the players really engaged him.

The fun thing about the D&D survival sessions I did was basically that everyone was on the same page. We all knew what it was about: to kill and to try to not to get killed. I described what was going on, pointed them in the right direction, and BAM, combat. You survived? Ok, some more description of what's going on, keep going in that direction, BAM, more combat. Those were some high-paced sessions with very little wasted time.

Next big post I'll get to the setup of the game, but that'll have to wait for another day.

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On 1/29/2007 at 2:08am, lev_lafayette wrote:
RE: Re: [D&D] Who's boss?

Jasper wrote:

Tom

Tom focuses on the "story" as he calls it. As far as I can tell that means two things to him: being his character and watching the story of the GM play out. On multiple occasions in the past he had told me he was willing to give up control of his character if it benefited the progression of the GM's story. (I made the GM explicit here, he didn't.)
An interesting conflict Tom seems to have with himself is that he creates PCs with story and background in mind, basically disregarding combat effectiveness, but then becomes unhappy because his PCs often suck in combat. I know multiple occasions where I've pointed out his PC configuration was suboptimal but he kept it because it apparently fit his character concept better. I think he's stuck playing the wrong system.


Ummm, maybe the wrong scenarios and scenes rather than the wrong system. A non-combat orientated character should have a few opportunities in a game to use the skills in which they are optimised for, be that diplomacy, obscure writings, chinese puzzle boxes or even basket-weaving if that's the character they want to play. If the module in question doesn't emphasise these things, then add them in.

I think it's very much a GMs responsibility to give all players an opportunity to hog the spotlight for a while on their terms and show what they are capable of. Don't run an evening where one character is constantly feeling left out just because that's module hasn't considered the possibility of non-combat roles.

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On 1/29/2007 at 7:21am, Jasper Flick wrote:
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I think it's very much a GMs responsibility to give all players an opportunity to hog the spotlight for a while on their terms and show what they are capable of. Don't run an evening where one character is constantly feeling left out just because that's module hasn't considered the possibility of non-combat roles.


Up to the point where one GM is running multiple one-on-one games with each player individually? In fact that's one one of my Not Fun examples. If the play interests of the players are wildly different then it is likely that trying to keep everyone happy most of the time is going to be impossible. You're asking quite a lot of the GM here. Without claiming ownership of D&D, I daresay the single non-combat-focused player is going to suffer the most in a combat-focused game, because his preferences are least supported. He's better off playing a non-combat-focused game. (Or everyone could be non-combat-focused, but then why do you play a combat-focused game in the first place?) Better start with everyone on the same page.

I know that if I'm going to run a combat-focused game I'm going to say so and I will not cater to non-fighter characters, period. In fact I did that once and it was the most coherent and fun play experience I've ever had. Yes, not everyone will like to play in such a game. Fine. I don't need to play with everyone. I don't have a fixed group I absolutely need to play with, bless me! System matters. People matter as well.

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